The Great Secret of Marriage
“The hard times of marriage drive us to experience more of this transforming love of God. But a good marriage will also be a a place where we experience more of this kind of transforming love at a human level. The gospel can fill our hearts with God’s love so that you can handle it when your spouse fails to love you as he or she should. That frees us to see our spouse’s sins and flaws to the bottom - and speak of them - and yet still love and accept our spouse fully. And when, by the power of the gospel, our spouse experiences the same kind of truthful yet committed love, it enables our spouses to show us that same kind of transforming love when the time comes for it.
This is the great secret! Through the gospel, we get both the power and the pattern for the journey of marriage.”
- The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God by Timothy and Kathy Keller



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